Philippine E-Journals

LULUHA KO PARA SA PAMILYA KO: EXPERIENCES ON INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE

Cynthia Grace T. Valdez

 

Abstract:

This research explored and interpreted the experiences and challenges faced by women victims on intimate partner violence. Qualitative phenomenological design was used and the research ethical standard was strictly followed in data gathering. Purposeful sampling technique was used in selecting the research participants who are very willing and able to share their stories. Based from their lived experiences on the phenomenon, these made them stronger for their children’s sake. In terms of their reasons for staying in an abusive relationship, the themes identified were: "Children and Rehabilitation," "Culture of Shame" and "Counteracting Abuse." The women victims’ experiences on intimate partner violence were diverse and each had her unique way of coping. They still chose to remain and live in the relationship for the sake of the children. Getting a higher educational degree added self-esteem and opening up to trusted friends eased the pain they were suffering. The Filipino culture of shame affected the women’s decision to remain and maintain the family despite their knowledge about their rights. Leaving was not the best choice for them. Praying and finding solace also helped these women went on with their lives.