Philippine E-Journals

Parent-Child Open Story: Issues in Between Parents and Children Posed Underachievement

Durivil D Ibañez

Discipline: Education

 

Abstract:

Definitely, all creatures with life have parents, a father, and a mother. By the time the child is actually born into our world, he or she has already experienced a little more than nine dramatic months of life in the “world” of the womb! The child who began life as a simple, single cell, has grown within a wondrous “life support system” explicitly designed to empower rapid development and nurturing until—a mere 40 weeks later—a beautiful baby is born and ready to be embraced by the loving parents, whose muffled voices the newborn has been listening to and bonding with for months. A mother stood as the closest as she carried the life inside her womb for months. From pregnancy to birth and onward , this little one naturally depends on the mother’s care and protection with the love and support of a father. She is the child’s first social ground and the complete provider for the child’s nourishment necessary for the baby’s growth. Nevertheless, she takes the role as a guide, a teacher, a provider, a tutor, a visual object for learning and a response maker. Whatever ways she displayed to her child, she will gain the trust and beliefs from the child being the first person who give information on them. As your child grows, you can enhance her ability to trust by creating a supportive environment, where you listen and follow through on the promises you make. From the trust they gain, a parent may do rules they think it helps them in disciplining and regulating their child’s hyperactivity. “ The mother would readily say in order to stop the child of roaming around and everywhere gets messy, she will give a scary idea like “ common, do not stop till the witch catches and eats you!